Submitted by Michael on Tue, 10/21/2008 - 5:05pm
I loved this book when it was released in the early sixties and picked up another copy when it was recently re-released. Surprisingly, it's every bit as good now as it was then. There's something refreshing about the pragmatism of a self-help book with chapters like "Refusing to Feel Desperately Unhappy" and "How to Feel Undepressed."





I remember that book. I liked the overall message too, that we create bad feelings through internalized sentences and can create good feelings the same way. The only thing I didn't like about it was the stilted writing style. I remember that the author related several conversations with patients which just didn't sound credible. They all started off highly skeptical and, with a few well-turned phrases, he had them saying, "I begin to see your point." The transformation was a little too pat, and I found it unlikely that even one person would talk like that, let alone all of them. It made the book as a whole kind of a rocky read for me.That aside, though, yes. Good book and, if I remember correctly, the first mainstream self-help book that promoted, literally, helping yourself.